This has gone too far

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I love pageants, and I was watching on Sunday night when this went down. I knew at the time it was an "oh-snap" moment, but I am surprised that we as a country are taking it this far. I'm surprised at you, Perez Hilton. I don't usually like to get too political on this blog, and let's just say that my answer to the question would not have been the same as Miss California's, but after watching the above video I feel the need to share my thoughts about how this is being handled.

In regard to the answer itself, since when do we as Americans who are granted FREEDOM OF SPEECH have the right to tell someone that her opinion is wrong? Miss California had the right to express the views she did, but it was some of her justification that I had a problem with. She uses the word "choose" several times, notably "we live in a land that you can choose same sex marriage or opposite marriage." "Opposite" marriage flub aside, Miss California, we are not able to choose what type of marriage we want. First, only a small number of states allow same-sex marriage. Not many choices there. Secondly, if she was implying that you can choose whether you're attracted to the same or opposite sex, THAT I have a problem with. I have no problem with the latter part of her answer that most of the media is harping on where she states that she believes marriage should be between a man and a woman. She has the right to believe whatever she wants.

I expected this to get media attention, but with the numerous post-incident interviews and apologies and revoking of apologies, I am sick of this and disappointed that we can't just let bygones be bygones. Carrie Prejean, Miss California, is not our new Miss USA. Her views do not officially of unofficially represent that of our country and thus they do not effect you. Go to Alabama where people are expressing these same views, only without the spray tan, eloquence, and general respect for all people. Throw in the word "faggot" that still comes out of many people's mouths in 2009 and would still come out even with a camera in front of them, and then try to tell me that Miss California is a "bitch" and a "cunt". Perez, I am disappointed that you are treating this young woman in this manner. In your mind, there was only one right answer to your pageant question and since it wasn't given, anything else became offensive and scandal worthy. Very closed minded in my opinion. How dare we actually have a healthy debate of ideas? If we were all the same, life would be boring, and we wouldn't have "scandals" like this for people like Perez Hilton to get their panties in a bunch about.

So Carrie P, I'll have your back any day girlfriend.